"this is me"
means, you written all over it. but what makes you actually? well its what you believe you are, and thus when you believe, you do.
Individuality, it's how you differentiate a person from another person; giving you the sense of being unique.
what ever you do, you are unique in everyway, maybe identical, moves the same, thinks the same, but at a smallest possible point, there's that difference.
in everything we do, there is something unique, a sense of you writing yourself all over your work. for example; Stardivarious and Amati, great makers of Violin, they are known all over the world, or at least most, because of their whole hearted deed of making violins, they are known. but because of their work, the Stardivari or Amati Violin, theirselves were written on their own Violins. Maybe violins look a like, but a Stradivari or Amati Violin is a Stradivari or Amati Violin, and a normal violin is a normal violin, they may look the same, but look closer, see the difference.
another example is Fashion Designers. their works is their signature. people may be wearing them, saying that these give them "Individuality", but who in the straight mind thinks that they have individuality when they all wear the same clothes, and it's not their style, its the designer's style.
Fashion is not style, because it's just you telling yourself and other people how to dress or to look, but Style on the other hand, it's you written all over. It's how you mix yourself and define yourself, so that they can see diamond amongst cubic zirconium.
Another example is artist, nothing can compare to the originals.
Singers and writers, they have their own mix of words.
what separates you from another one is yourself, being in the trends does not give you individuality at all because you just follow somebody else's style rather than your own, so that is Stupid, Much less futile.
this thread, i encourage to readers to make your own, not copy or use another's style, it's plagiarism, and does not promote your own. so work hard to make your own, that it will define you.
"this is me"
My Ideas...
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Every cloud has a silver lining
"every cloud has a silver lining"
it doesn't say that it's covering the clouds, it meant to say that there's a separator, but what does it separates?
the "lining" is a special material that supposedly say that; the "separator" is obvious or easily to be caught by our eyes.
it just means that the silver lining there exists to show us the different things about our life, meaning cloud.
The cloud represents us, and the dark side is our griefs, our bad moments, anything that is bad. the light side, or above is simply the good side.
the sides does not directly represent our bad side or good side, but what happens to us.
for example, you got a pet dog. the good thing about it is that you have a companion, whilst the bad side is another one to feed or it would constantly disturb us.
sometimes the "BAD SIDE" of things happening is we always biased, we only look or we neglect to look to both, sometimes we "WHINE" to bad sides alone because of us not seeing anything, or we "CELEBRATE" so much at the good side, and then the bad side has already ambushed.
For instance, you failed to a test and you then took it very hard, you cried and cried, tried to suicide and or turned to destructive outlet. but what you didn't see is is what you were supposed to learn, and because of your failure, you were to learn and when you take the test again, you have a better chance of success.
and also, when you won a million or more money, meaning differing currency, its the good side. but then the bad side is wasting the money immediately without you noticing, and then you won't know when you're broke.
whenever something happens, never fail to find the good side and bad side, but never let your guard down and assess the advantages and disadvantages carefully to also carefully do the wise thing.
"every cloud has a silver lining"
it doesn't say that it's covering the clouds, it meant to say that there's a separator, but what does it separates?
the "lining" is a special material that supposedly say that; the "separator" is obvious or easily to be caught by our eyes.
it just means that the silver lining there exists to show us the different things about our life, meaning cloud.
The cloud represents us, and the dark side is our griefs, our bad moments, anything that is bad. the light side, or above is simply the good side.
the sides does not directly represent our bad side or good side, but what happens to us.
for example, you got a pet dog. the good thing about it is that you have a companion, whilst the bad side is another one to feed or it would constantly disturb us.
sometimes the "BAD SIDE" of things happening is we always biased, we only look or we neglect to look to both, sometimes we "WHINE" to bad sides alone because of us not seeing anything, or we "CELEBRATE" so much at the good side, and then the bad side has already ambushed.
For instance, you failed to a test and you then took it very hard, you cried and cried, tried to suicide and or turned to destructive outlet. but what you didn't see is is what you were supposed to learn, and because of your failure, you were to learn and when you take the test again, you have a better chance of success.
and also, when you won a million or more money, meaning differing currency, its the good side. but then the bad side is wasting the money immediately without you noticing, and then you won't know when you're broke.
whenever something happens, never fail to find the good side and bad side, but never let your guard down and assess the advantages and disadvantages carefully to also carefully do the wise thing.
"every cloud has a silver lining"
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Begin each day as if it were on purpose
"begin each day as if it were on purpose"
have you ever wondered why you were alive? why you people turn to worshiping persons or idols?
do you know Pascals Wager? it's said that God may not be true or may be he is. but then when we worship him, follow his teachings, we'll be a better people. and if he's not true, we'll still be a better man, if he's true, then we'll go up to the heaven. so basically one wins on either way, if he's not alive, we're better people, if he is, we're welcomed at his home, that simple.
people turn to such people to give them the "Drive" to live. but some people worship other that people with good teachings.
some people are wicked, they worship money or other material things, and they're compelled to do horrible things. people with power, take some people at the government for example, one corrupt senator or higher may bring down he whole government, and who knows? maybe a chain of reaction that good people who is in charge also turns bad.
some people get hurt or even die.
Our purpose? well it's a complicated thing, and it's different among of us. some people believe that their purpose is to earn living, money, or to do something else like join the force as in police, or even the army. some people chose to be nurses or doctors to save people. some chose to be scientists and inventors to bring better technology and life among of us? some People like architects or engineers build things for the future, for the people. Teachers?, parents? they teach us things that we need for the world.
so what do they have in common?... ... ... they chose jobs that to do good for the other people. Army Men and Police Officers defend for the safety of it's country and it's people in it. Doctors and Nurses chose to save and help people those are in need of medical attention. Inventors and Scientists develop better things that helps us with our daily lives. Engineers and Architects plan and build things for us to have a better world; homes, roads, or buildings. Parents helps us to our feet at the best they can, and Teachers help us learn things that we need.
Purpose?: if we don't have one, then we wouldn't wake up everyday, we'll just keep dreaming of the things that we should have done.
THEY have the right purpose; to live not only for themselves, but for other people, to help them in ways they can.
The world is not mine, or yours. it's ours, when we learn to share it, then we're changing the world for the better.
"begin each day as if it were on purpose"
have you ever wondered why you were alive? why you people turn to worshiping persons or idols?
do you know Pascals Wager? it's said that God may not be true or may be he is. but then when we worship him, follow his teachings, we'll be a better people. and if he's not true, we'll still be a better man, if he's true, then we'll go up to the heaven. so basically one wins on either way, if he's not alive, we're better people, if he is, we're welcomed at his home, that simple.
people turn to such people to give them the "Drive" to live. but some people worship other that people with good teachings.
some people are wicked, they worship money or other material things, and they're compelled to do horrible things. people with power, take some people at the government for example, one corrupt senator or higher may bring down he whole government, and who knows? maybe a chain of reaction that good people who is in charge also turns bad.
some people get hurt or even die.
Our purpose? well it's a complicated thing, and it's different among of us. some people believe that their purpose is to earn living, money, or to do something else like join the force as in police, or even the army. some people chose to be nurses or doctors to save people. some chose to be scientists and inventors to bring better technology and life among of us? some People like architects or engineers build things for the future, for the people. Teachers?, parents? they teach us things that we need for the world.
so what do they have in common?... ... ... they chose jobs that to do good for the other people. Army Men and Police Officers defend for the safety of it's country and it's people in it. Doctors and Nurses chose to save and help people those are in need of medical attention. Inventors and Scientists develop better things that helps us with our daily lives. Engineers and Architects plan and build things for us to have a better world; homes, roads, or buildings. Parents helps us to our feet at the best they can, and Teachers help us learn things that we need.
Purpose?: if we don't have one, then we wouldn't wake up everyday, we'll just keep dreaming of the things that we should have done.
THEY have the right purpose; to live not only for themselves, but for other people, to help them in ways they can.
The world is not mine, or yours. it's ours, when we learn to share it, then we're changing the world for the better.
"begin each day as if it were on purpose"
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Love is Blind
"love is blind"
true as simple as that, but as complicated as this:
Love, how does it happen?, no one knows. but one moment you were enjoying your life, and the next thing you will wonder "how have you ever lived without her/him", this may come from a movie but it's true.
people do crazy things when they're in love, and sometimes they think laws don't apply; take Newton's law of gravitation for an example, but not literally. it's just because you fail to keep your feet at the world and fly to your imagination; like marrying him or her, to other may or may not be ridiculous fantasies.
sometimes when we're in love, we don't know what were doing, neither does we know whether it's real or not.
sometimes when we became hurt, by him or her leaving you or other things, sometimes we don't know whether we would want to die in front of him/her or strangle him/her with razor wire, but of course we won't do that, because we love that certain someone. but merely we sit to some corner or some other place so that we may be alone and bleed; means cry or let the pain engulf you till you grow numb and learn not to care anymore.
you know what!, that is normal. that's how people feel, whether they like it or not, whether they know it or not.
the worst part if we let it control us; our emotion. if we let our emotion guide our hands, it may lead to utterly bad things: like Suicide, Murder, Drug Addiction, etc. and when one feels rejected, because of what happen, even more violent person will emerge if she or he would not try to look whilst feeling.
maybe it's too late, maybe it's not, maybe the right thing or not; what you should do. maybe you should let go, or hold on, but it't yours to decide, freeing yourself to a happiness is different from achieving true happiness. sometimes we date another girl or boy, over eat, not eat, or others to fill that gaping hole on our heart, and we can't stop the bleeding even then.
to fix this; maybe we cant cause we can never even get close to him or her, he or she, or we can't find time for closure, sometimes even after closure, things just don't get better, or even gets worse. sometimes a shot alone won't cut it and ends up wasted.
you may keep saying to yourself that "you don't love her/him anymore" but thats a frigging LIE, but if that't true, then you never loved him or her truly at all.
true as simple as that, but as complicated as this:
Love, how does it happen?, no one knows. but one moment you were enjoying your life, and the next thing you will wonder "how have you ever lived without her/him", this may come from a movie but it's true.
people do crazy things when they're in love, and sometimes they think laws don't apply; take Newton's law of gravitation for an example, but not literally. it's just because you fail to keep your feet at the world and fly to your imagination; like marrying him or her, to other may or may not be ridiculous fantasies.
sometimes when we're in love, we don't know what were doing, neither does we know whether it's real or not.
sometimes when we became hurt, by him or her leaving you or other things, sometimes we don't know whether we would want to die in front of him/her or strangle him/her with razor wire, but of course we won't do that, because we love that certain someone. but merely we sit to some corner or some other place so that we may be alone and bleed; means cry or let the pain engulf you till you grow numb and learn not to care anymore.
you know what!, that is normal. that's how people feel, whether they like it or not, whether they know it or not.
the worst part if we let it control us; our emotion. if we let our emotion guide our hands, it may lead to utterly bad things: like Suicide, Murder, Drug Addiction, etc. and when one feels rejected, because of what happen, even more violent person will emerge if she or he would not try to look whilst feeling.
maybe it's too late, maybe it's not, maybe the right thing or not; what you should do. maybe you should let go, or hold on, but it't yours to decide, freeing yourself to a happiness is different from achieving true happiness. sometimes we date another girl or boy, over eat, not eat, or others to fill that gaping hole on our heart, and we can't stop the bleeding even then.
to fix this; maybe we cant cause we can never even get close to him or her, he or she, or we can't find time for closure, sometimes even after closure, things just don't get better, or even gets worse. sometimes a shot alone won't cut it and ends up wasted.
you may keep saying to yourself that "you don't love her/him anymore" but thats a frigging LIE, but if that't true, then you never loved him or her truly at all.
but keep trying, for you love him or her so much that you would die for her or him, isn't that enough proof?
maybe not for her or him for he or she closed his or her mind to the idea; various negative things. but until you show it to him or her, she won't believe, but even if he or she didn't, can't say we tried. but the fact that we tried our best, is also a sign of the fact that we loved him or her so much.
sometimes it's hard to accept that he or she didn't love you back as much as you do, but that doesn't mean that it won't grow forever. whatever happens, there's always a chance, and there's you crazy enough to gamble for the better life.
"love is blind"
Monday, April 11, 2011
Time Flies...
"time flies"
apparently yes
you may not notice it but whatever we do, even we don't, time never stops.
once done, can never be undone. once broken, it can never be mend again.
but would you be dragged down by that?
what happened in the past is the past, one cannot, can never change what happened.
some people believe in second chances, but apparently they don't come cause you make your own.
you may not notice it, but it's there, it's happening.
like when you made a schedule to an episode you miss at a certain TV show for it's replay. the point is you did everything you could to get to that point, rather than sitting to a corner twiddling fingers till it comes.
Like as said "do your best, and then God will do the rest" and thus he didn't just gave you that while lounging around and waiting for the day to end, you got it because you made it happen.
maybe it's bothersome, or hard but for what's it worth? we'll never know, but till you gamble for a better life, none will come to you, till you decide to step up and make the change, Progress will leave you behind along with time.
as long as time is with you, be with it and do as well as think.
doing is not enough, but also do for the right reasons, and right deeds if it allows it. Sometimes we have to make a hard decision, for law enforcement, sometimes we choose to kill one bad guy to save more. so it's doing a wrong thing for right reasons.
don't let time pass you by without you doing anything worth while, though be that as it may that no one would recognize it but do it anyway.
"Time Flies..."
apparently yes
you may not notice it but whatever we do, even we don't, time never stops.
once done, can never be undone. once broken, it can never be mend again.
but would you be dragged down by that?
what happened in the past is the past, one cannot, can never change what happened.
some people believe in second chances, but apparently they don't come cause you make your own.
you may not notice it, but it's there, it's happening.
like when you made a schedule to an episode you miss at a certain TV show for it's replay. the point is you did everything you could to get to that point, rather than sitting to a corner twiddling fingers till it comes.
Like as said "do your best, and then God will do the rest" and thus he didn't just gave you that while lounging around and waiting for the day to end, you got it because you made it happen.
maybe it's bothersome, or hard but for what's it worth? we'll never know, but till you gamble for a better life, none will come to you, till you decide to step up and make the change, Progress will leave you behind along with time.
as long as time is with you, be with it and do as well as think.
doing is not enough, but also do for the right reasons, and right deeds if it allows it. Sometimes we have to make a hard decision, for law enforcement, sometimes we choose to kill one bad guy to save more. so it's doing a wrong thing for right reasons.
don't let time pass you by without you doing anything worth while, though be that as it may that no one would recognize it but do it anyway.
"Time Flies..."
To See A World In A Grain of Sand
"to see a world in a grain of sand"
Sometimes the biggest things in the world is the smallest things imaginable.
The Atom, it's so small that we can't actually see it with our naked eyes, yet they serve big roles in existence of us and those who surrounds us.
Same goes to events, or things in your life. something petty, like attending to your daughter's birthday, recital of her chosen instrument, or even just walking or taking her to school is a big thing, one choice to make the difference, the question is: what choice you will make?
Missing some of her events can affect the way she interact with you. if you barely have time to attend to your daughter, be that as it may you provide her food, shelter, education and such, but without "bonding", you might as well be wasting not just your time, but your life. watching your child grow up may be hard, but it's important too, may be a big thing, but what bigger is what would interaction would do to the future, remember small and big is comparison between two selected things.
another example is an interaction between boys and girls. boys and girls naturally interact with each other, though mostly it's small things like discussing about: candy, homework. but what is big is the interaction itself, and also a small mistake to finish the friendship. some small words like "I Love You" may or may not work, but however as small it is, it has a big factor to your relation.
You may love her truly, but she don't know that, so she would come to conclusion for it to be a "LIE" and avoid you, and you will end up in spiraling torment, misery, depression, you name it!
But another thing is when she believe you, what would happen next? no one knows, thats up to you, remember that good little things would actually lead to a bigger and better world.
taking her to a walk in the park sounds nice, learn about each other.
"To See a World in a grain of sand"
Sometimes the biggest things in the world is the smallest things imaginable.
The Atom, it's so small that we can't actually see it with our naked eyes, yet they serve big roles in existence of us and those who surrounds us.
Same goes to events, or things in your life. something petty, like attending to your daughter's birthday, recital of her chosen instrument, or even just walking or taking her to school is a big thing, one choice to make the difference, the question is: what choice you will make?
Missing some of her events can affect the way she interact with you. if you barely have time to attend to your daughter, be that as it may you provide her food, shelter, education and such, but without "bonding", you might as well be wasting not just your time, but your life. watching your child grow up may be hard, but it's important too, may be a big thing, but what bigger is what would interaction would do to the future, remember small and big is comparison between two selected things.
another example is an interaction between boys and girls. boys and girls naturally interact with each other, though mostly it's small things like discussing about: candy, homework. but what is big is the interaction itself, and also a small mistake to finish the friendship. some small words like "I Love You" may or may not work, but however as small it is, it has a big factor to your relation.
You may love her truly, but she don't know that, so she would come to conclusion for it to be a "LIE" and avoid you, and you will end up in spiraling torment, misery, depression, you name it!
But another thing is when she believe you, what would happen next? no one knows, thats up to you, remember that good little things would actually lead to a bigger and better world.
taking her to a walk in the park sounds nice, learn about each other.
"To See a World in a grain of sand"
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