To See A World In A Grain of Sand

"to see a world in a grain of sand"

Sometimes the biggest things in the world is the smallest things imaginable.

The Atom, it's so small that we can't actually see it with our naked eyes, yet they serve big roles in existence of us and those who surrounds us.

Same goes to events, or things in your life. something petty, like attending to your daughter's birthday, recital of her chosen instrument, or even just walking or taking her to school is a big thing, one choice to make the difference, the question is: what choice you will make?

Missing some of her events can affect the way she interact with you. if you barely have time to attend to your daughter, be that as it may you provide her food, shelter, education and such, but without "bonding", you might as well be wasting not just your time, but your life. watching your child grow up may be hard, but it's important too, may be a big thing, but what bigger is what would interaction would do to the future, remember small and big is comparison between two selected things.

another example is an interaction between boys and girls. boys and girls naturally interact with each other, though mostly it's small things like discussing about: candy, homework. but what is big is the interaction itself, and also a small mistake to finish the friendship. some small words like "I Love You" may or may not work, but however as small it is, it has a big factor to your relation.

You may love her truly, but she don't know that, so she would come to conclusion for it to be a "LIE" and avoid you, and you will end up in spiraling torment, misery, depression, you name it!

But another thing is when she believe you, what would happen next? no one knows, thats up to you, remember that good little things would actually lead to a bigger and better world.

taking her to a walk in the park sounds nice, learn about each other.

"To See a World in a grain of sand"